Get cozy at home with blankets and all your favorite snacks, go on a walk to your favorite park, or have a beach day to ask the love of your life these questions:

  1. What are the two biggest lessons you’ve learned from previous relationships?
  2. What would be the absolute perfect day?
  3. What’s one way I’ve been there for you in a way that you didn’t even know you needed?
  4. What do you most look forward to about getting old?
  5. If money was no object, where would you live?
  6. What habit would you most like to break? What habit would you like to start?
  7. When was the last time you did something you were afraid of?
  8. What area of your life, right now, makes you feel the best?
  9. If the world ended in 5 hours, what would you regret not doing?
  10. What trait or habit of mine have you come to cherish over time?
  11. Is there a song, scent, or place that instantly reminds you of a special moment between us?
  12. What is one skill or hobby that you want to start doing together in the future?
  13. What is one way we can keep our relationship fun and exciting as we grow older?
  14. What’s one big personal goal you want to accomplish within the next 3 years? How can I support you in achieving this?
  15. What’s something you feel I haven’t fully understood about you?
  16. If we had to switch lives for a day what would you be the most and least excited to do as me?
  17. What are you most proud of about yourself and why?
  18. What makes you feel special?
  19. When did you know “this is my person”?
  20. Is there anything you wish we did more of?
  21. What’s something I did in the last week that made you feel loved?
  22. What’s your favorite sexual memory of ours and why?
  23. What’s your favorite memory from your childhood?
  24. Who are you most inspired by and why?
  25. How do you want to be remembered in life?
  26. If you could make one change in the world, what would it be?
  27. What do you wish you did more of?
  28. What qualities do you admire in others?
  29. How do you like to relax?
  30. What’s something I do that reassures you, even on your toughest days, that we’re in this together?
  31. Describe a moment when you looked at me and thought, “This is why I love them.”
  32. How do you feel our love is different or special compared to other love stories you know?
  33. What was the exact moment you realized you were falling in love with me?
  34. How has our love challenged you to become a better person?


These questions are meant for each partner to ask one another.